How to Flirt with a Girl at the bar

Just like Rome wasn't built in a day, you too can't be a swag master in a day, you have to practice flirting till it comes naturally.

You're at an uber watering hole, and you notice this gorgeous lady sipping on her vodka cranberry. You just can't take your eyes off her, and you really have the urge to talk to her, what do you do? You play it cool.

Before you have any shot at getting anywhere with this girl, you need to assure her that you're genuinely interested in her and you are not the friendly neighbourhood serial killer. How do you do that? You have a plan, or as they say "a game".

It is important that you approach her the right way, you don't want to bore her or creep the be jesus out of her! It is necessary that you make her feel comfortable, at the same time let the sparks fly between the two of you. Here are some ways you could woo a girl to be the one from your dreams.

Dos and Don'ts of Flirting

No matter what your approach, there are a few basic rules that you need to follow.

#1. Don't stare unless you want her to think you're some psychotic lady killer.

#2. That being said, it is important to make eye contact; once you've caught her gaze, hold it for about three seconds, not two... not four, three seconds. Smile at her and look away, at your friends or your glass, anywhere, just not another woman (or your crotch).

#3. Once you get talking to her, compliment her (we love it), make sure to keep it classy, avoid words like voluptuous, sonsy, etc. Buy her and her friends a drink.

#4. Keep it light, no one wants to hear about how your hemorrhoids aren't letting you sleep at night, save it for a conversation that comes in much later.